Ignorance breeds ignorance:

Our children is an extension of ourselves. They learn by not listening, but what they see and what we do. That is human nature, we learn by watching and going. We teach our children the way we were taught. It is what one thought was best. To some, they may think their way is the best.There is no real manual on how to raise a family. Therefore, hatred breeds hatred, racism breeds racism, love breeds stupidity, laziness breeds laziness and so on.

What we are mostly teaching our children today is... that it is ok to give up and make others pay for our mistakes. We no longer teach our children to own up for their mistakes, to make themselves better if they do not "get picked" or to feel what it is like to suffer a loss, instead, we make everyone a winner. We do not teach kids that when they fall of that bike, to get up and try again until they are riding it. 

We need to teach our children how to hunt, gather, ready themselves for the real world. Not to make a mockery of their shortfalls. Schools, educators, can only take our children so far. We must ready them for what lies ahead. Yes, they will deny your advice, just as you have done to your parents.

There is no longer that sense of stability. Families mostly break because some became greedy, whether it is lust, financial, esteem, social status or whatever, one had put their needs before their family. That adds pressure to the remaining parent who has to be the complete foundation. If not, the child will look elsewhere.

When you become a parent, your life has switched to a life of dedication to your child. And even further when you have grand children. That career, that fame, that fortune, your dreams are all put on hold or demished because it is our responsibility as a parent to make that child grow and become better than we hope. Where we stop from succedding, our children can continue on that goal for us. It is our duty, our responsibility to make sure our children put forth every effort to continue on.

When our children becomes ill, physically or emotionally, we do not give up and sit back and throw our hands up in the air and surrender. NO!! We do everything in our means by any means neccessary to make that child whole again. No child should have to live a life in dismay if there is an opportunity to make that child whole again. If you do nothing, then you are telling our children that it is ok to give up and do nothing but to let others pay for your mistake.

Be aware of what you do. You are the one that makes an impression